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Sexual Abuse and Assault: Steps to Healing.

David George

Sexual abuse and assault are deeply traumatic experiences that can leave lasting scars on survivors. While the journey to recovery can be challenging, it is also profoundly transformative. This article is intended to serve as a focused review on the topic, hopefully offering hope, understanding, and a starting point to further learning and healing for survivors.


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Sexual trauma can leave deep scars, reshaping mental health and even altering brain function. Yet, the brain is resilient, and healing is profoundly possible. Through therapy, support, and self-compassion, survivors can rebuild their sense of safety, rediscover joy, and reclaim their lives. The journey is challenging, but it can also be an inspiring testament to human strength and the power of hope.

Understanding Sexual Abuse and Sexual Assault


What Are They?


Sexual abuse refers to repeated or ongoing sexual contact imposed on someone without their consent. It often involves manipulation, coercion, or exploitation, particularly in vulnerable populations such as children or dependents. Examples include molestation, incest, or sexual exploitation, typically by someone in a position of trust.


Sexual assault, on the other hand, is an umbrella term encompassing any non-consensual sexual act. It includes incidents of rape, attempted rape, and sexual violence. Unlike abuse, sexual assault often occurs as a singular or isolated event, although it may be repeated in cases like intimate partner violence. The distinction is important as it highlights the spectrum of harm survivors endure (CDC, 2021).


Prevalence

Sexual violence is a pervasive problem. In the United States:

  • Nearly 1 in 4 women and 1 in 33 men experience completed or attempted rape during their lifetime (CDC, 2021).

  • Approximately 10% of children are victims of sexual abuse before turning 18, with girls disproportionately affected (ACEP, 2020).

  • Most perpetrators are known to the victim—nearly 80% of female victims and 53% of male victims report knowing their attacker (RAINN, 2021).


Why Many Survivors Don’t Report

Underreporting of sexual abuse and assault remains a significant barrier to justice and recovery. Research suggests that only 30% of sexual assaults are reported to law enforcement (ACOG, 2019). The reasons for silence are multifaceted:


  • Fear of retaliation or further harm: Survivors may fear reprisal from their abuser or perpetrator.

  • Feelings of shame or self-blame: Cultural stigmas often place the burden of guilt on the survivor rather than the perpetrator.

  • Distrust in the justice system: Survivors may feel that their case will not be taken seriously or fear facing their attacker during legal proceedings.

  • Lack of evidence or support: Many victims worry they will not be believed due to insufficient evidence.


By understanding these barriers, society can better support survivors and encourage reporting.


Date Rape: A Disturbing Reality

Date rape, or acquaintance rape, is alarmingly common, particularly among college-aged individuals.


Statistics and Risk Factors

  • Approximately 50% of sexual assaults involve someone the victim knows, such as a friend, romantic partner, or acquaintance (CDC, 2021).

  • College-aged women face a 1 in 5 chance of being sexually assaulted during their college years (RAINN, 2021).

  • Alcohol and drug use are major contributing factors in date rape cases, as they can impair judgment and reduce the ability to give or interpret consent.


Perpetrator Profiles

Perpetrators often exploit trust and situational vulnerabilities. Many date rapists do not fit stereotypical profiles; they can be peers, respected community members, or even individuals who are otherwise perceived as "good people." Recognizing this reality is critical in dismantling myths about rape.


Myths About Rape and Sexual Abuse

Myths surrounding sexual violence perpetuate stigma and silence. Common misconceptions include:

  • "Rape is about uncontrollable sexual desire." (Reality: It’s about power, control, and domination.)

  • "Victims provoke assault through their behavior or clothing." (Reality: Assault is always the perpetrator’s responsibility.)

  • "Most rapes are committed by strangers." (Reality: 7 out of 10 victims know their assailant, making acquaintance rape the most common form.)


The Psychological and Neurological Impact of Sexual Trauma


Effects on the Brain

Unfortunately, the field of neuroscience confirms that trauma alters brain function, particularly in regions associated with fear and memory, such as the amygdala, hippocampus, and prefrontal cortex. Research demonstrates:

  • Overactivity in the amygdala heightens fear responses.

  • Damage to the hippocampus impairs memory processing, contributing to fragmented or incomplete recollections of the trauma.

  • Reduced activity in the prefrontal cortex affects decision-making and emotional regulation (Teicher et al., 2016).

These changes can result in hypervigilance, intrusive thoughts, and emotional dysregulation. An important point is to recognize that sexual trauma can act as an injury to the brain, affecting how it functions and how the victims perceives and moves through their world - it isn't "just an emotional issue".


Effects on Mental Health

Sexual trauma is a major risk factor for developing mental health conditions, including:

  • Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): Nearly 50% of survivors experience PTSD, characterized by flashbacks, nightmares, and heightened anxiety (ACOG, 2021).

  • Depression and Anxiety: Survivors often experience pervasive feelings of sadness, worthlessness, and fear.

  • Substance Abuse: Many turn to alcohol or drugs as coping mechanisms, with higher rates of addiction reported among survivors.


The Journey to Healing


Seeking Professional Help

While psychotherapy can offer substantial benefits, the truth is that the road to healing is not always straightforward. Challenges such as finding the right therapist, addressing deeply rooted trauma, and managing the emotional intensity of therapy sessions may arise. Even with the best of all factors, the process can be challenging. Some survivors may not find immediate relief, but persistence can yield improvement over time. If one approach doesn’t work, exploring alternative therapies or combinations of treatments can be key. Survivors should remember that healing is a journey, and seeking help is a courageous and worthwhile step. Therapy offers a proven path to recovery. Survivors often benefit from evidence-based interventions, as highlighted by two pivotal meta-analyses:


  • Harvey & Taylor (2010): Psychotherapy significantly reduces trauma symptoms in children and adolescents.

  • Taylor & Harvey (2009): Therapy for adult survivors improves PTSD, depression, and self-esteem.


Types of Psychotherapy for Sexual Trauma

Not all forms of psychotherapy (also known as counseling or therapy) are the same. The experience of therapy can be affected by many variables, including setting, the relationship between therapist and client, and the type of therapy employed. Survivors should be encouraged to try different therapists and therapy settings until they find one that works. Here are some types of therapy can might be employed in healing from sexual trauma:

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT):

    • Focuses on reframing negative thought patterns.

    • Trauma-Focused CBT (TF-CBT) is particularly effective for reducing PTSD symptoms.

  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR):

    • Helps process traumatic memories.

    • Reduces dissociation and enhances emotional stability.

  • Interpersonal Psychotherapy (IPT):

    • Addresses social and relational challenges.

    • Effective in reducing feelings of shame and isolation.

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS):

    • Focuses on understanding and harmonizing internal "parts" of the self that may hold conflicting feelings about the trauma.

    • Emerging evidence suggests IFS can help survivors process and integrate their experiences, fostering a sense of inner cohesion (Schwartz, 2020).

  • Ketamine and Ketamine-assisted Psychotherapy (KAP):

    • Ketamine therapy and KAP, a relatively new form of psychotherapy, are showing promise for addressing symptoms of PTSD, including sexual trauma (Albuquerque et al., 2023; ACOG, 2024).

  • Group and Individual Therapy:

    • Individual therapy is particularly effective for addressing PTSD, while group therapy fosters community and shared understanding.

Emerging Therapies

  • Stellate Ganglion Block (SGB):

    • A medical procedure involving the injection of a small amount of anesthetic onto a small nerve cluster at the side of the next, which essentially "resets" the sympathetic ("fight or flight") nervous system. While the stellate ganglion block shows promise as a treatment for trauma-related symptoms, specific, larger studies regarding its effectiveness for sexual trauma have not yet been conducted (ENA & IAFN, 2016; Springer et al., 2024).


  • Psychedelic Medicines:

    • Early evidence suggests that psychedelics, particularly in therapeutic settings, may aid in healing from sexual trauma by facilitating memory retrieval and identity transformation, although as a cautionary consideration, apparently there are cases where they may also trigger PTSD (Modlin et al., 2024; Rose, 2024).

The Role of Faith in Recovery

Faith can offer solace and resilience to survivors, though it can also present challenges:

Benefits

  • Religious Coping: Spiritual practices reduce psychological distress.

  • Spiritual Support: Survivors with strong faith often report higher levels of posttraumatic growth and resilience (NRCDV, 2020).

Challenges

  • Religious Strain: Survivors may experience a loss of faith or feel abandoned by their religious community.

  • Institutional Failures: Negative experiences with religious organizations can exacerbate trauma.

Conclusion

Healing from sexual abuse and assault is a deeply personal journey. Survivors often carry the burdens of guilt and shame, but it’s important to recognize that the fault lies entirely with the perpetrator. Survivors should understand that regardless of the past, they deserve a good life, free from the shadows of their trauma. Becoming well and healing is not only possible but profoundly worth the effort. With the right resources, support, and perseverance, survivors can reclaim their lives and thrive.

About the Author

Dr. David George is the founder of Neuregen Integrative Psychiatry and Neurologic Health in Scottsdale, AZ. Specializing in advanced psychiatric care, Dr. George provides innovative treatments, including ketamine-assisted-psychotherapy, ketamine therapy, hypnosis, stellate ganglion block, integrative psychiatry and holistic approaches to trauma recovery. He is dedicated to helping individuals overcome adversity and thrive.

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American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG). (2019). Committee opinion on sexual assault. Retrieved from https://www.acog.org

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). (2021). Sexual violence facts. Retrieved from https://www.cdc.gov

Emergency Nurses Association (ENA) and International Association of Forensic Nurses (IAFN). (2016). Joint position statement on adult and adolescent sexual assault patients in the emergency care setting. Retrieved from https://www.ena.org

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